Sunday, August 8, 2010

BE YOU EVEN.............


Be You Even
When we refused to pass who are really for the other ones, it is our image that they start to know and to love or not to appreciate, and no that that we are truly. Frequently the people are afraid of the judgment of the other ones and they prefer “to follow the tide” of what to contradict. Maybe be afraid of revealing for thinking won't be accepted as healthy, or then for not to hurt and to hurt the other ones, they prefer to act as if they were in agreement with everything. They say yes when inwardly they not think. And grows up like this a false and erroneous image of himself. But the life is not a stage and we are not all actors that, after the show, they say goodbye to your character.If we make that created in turn of us a hypocritical world.I doesn’t say here that should be playing our truths without caring with the people's reaction. We are not an island and less still the center of the world. Though, has moment and middle for everything in the life. The important is the honesty. A same thing can be said in different ways and to cause different impacts in that that hears. It is what called euphemism and that doesn't do badly to anybody. A thing is to say “that color is horrible in you” and other “I think that would be much better in you.” If we didn't agree with an idea or a person, there are ways to expose what thought without we be unpleasant. We are what are and we thought what thought. The people that love owe us to love us for that that we are and not for the that we pretended to be. They will accept us in spite of our flaws if they notice that we are sincere and if they love us truly. Any that is the situation, be you even Sincere, limpid, transparent. Maybe you are not the ideal for everybody, but you will know that those that love you, they love deeply and of the whole heart. The true friends should not be obligatorily the whole time of agreement, but they owe to learn to respect and to accept the difference of the other, because they are exactly the differences that enrich us.

1 comment:

  1. walking in the dark with a friend is better than walking alone in the light...:)
    (helen keller)
    described very nicely sandeep.Bebo is proud of you and want you to write more and more in the years to come...

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